Are you a man hunter?
We live in what is now called the Hook Up Culture! In the early stages of dating, you take on one of two roles: the Chaser or the Resistor. It’s important for you to be the Resistor and not the Chaser. That’s because the Chaser is the one who makes sure you spend time together and who pursues the Resistor. If you are the one doing the Chasing, you do not create the space to see if that person is going to step up and pursue YOU. It takes time to get to know someone, use this time to see if he’ll move things forward in a way that says I respect and want you. Your “resistance” will also inspire them to want to pursue you, rather than resist progress in your relationship. Men are naturally meant to be the hunter and providers, they need the pursuit. So take your foot off the accelerator and let a man initiate his interactions with you. Only then will you progress in your relationship! Contact me at http://www.myerslifecoachingllc.com if you have any questions about dating!
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